Six Rules to Make People Like You
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people
This new rule is trying to tell us that we can make new friends if we are determined to do it. For example you can have a friend in two months than in two years but you have to be interested in them, instead of waiting for them to like you back. Don't wait on other people to like you, instead go up to them and make conversations with them because its easier and nicer. By doing this rule you can be accepted anywhere because people are going accept the way you are. I will apply this new rule into my life because I'm going to try to talk to new people and get out of my shell because I need to stop being shy. Although it may be hard at the beginning, it will get easier toward the end and it will all be worth it. The quote at the left is telling you that if want to develop a real friendship or if you want to help others you need to become interested in others because that's the way you communicate.
Rule 2: Smile
This new rule is trying to tell us that we should smile every time no matter how mad or sad we are. Smiling brings joy and happiness in other peoples life. It also makes you look good when you're presenting at your job or when you want to get hire. Just by smiling, others can tell how much happiness you have in your life. Even if you wake up in bad mood, you should still smile throughout the day. When you smile you let your friends or family members know how glad you are to see them. I will apply this new way into my life because each day I'm going to try my best to give everyone a smile, especially my mom because I want to show her how thankful I am to have her in my life. The quote shown at the left is telling you how a smile can hide many things, whether you're sad. heartbroken, or mad but it can also show the strength you have. Smiling is a very important thing in life because it tells you many things. As a matter of fact know one likes a person who is always gloomy or mad because it doesn't say much about you. Smiles make a good friendship and a good world to live in.
Rule 3: Remember Names
This new rule is trying to tell us that we should always remember peoples name because its important, just like we know our own name, then we should do the same. Remembering names can be a big part in your future. For example when you want to get a recommendation from a teacher but you don't remember their name, how are you suppose to put them down. Not remembering names also makes you look bad because people are expecting you to remember them, so that you can have a nice friendship. Other names that you should remember are your workplace, where you live (city, state, country etc.). I will apply this new rule into my life by always doing the best I can to remember names because maybe one day I may need them for help. If I don't remember someones name, then i will associate more with them. Now a days it should be easier to remember names when you add them as a contact on your phone, it gives you the option to put their name. The quote at the right is telling you why people don't like to remember names, simply because they just don't have the time/ energy or they make excuses for themselves. Some ways to remember names is by making a commitment, concentrate, repeat and associate.
Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage other to talk about themselves
This new rules is trying to tell us that we should always pay attention when someone is talking to us, let them know that we care what their saying. Encourage others to tell you something about themselves because its important that we to know one another. As a matter of fact we should always be a good listener in school, at home, at work, and even when your in public. Ask question when you need to. I will apply this new rule into my life because I will always try my very best to be a good listener even when I may be stressed out or daydreaming. I also need to encourage myself and other to talk about themselves. Be a smart person and choose to do the right thing. The quote shown at the left is telling you how being a good listener encourages you to be curious about the speaker and that's a good thing because now you know another person. Go out there today and be a good listener and meet new people/ friends.
Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest
This new rule is trying to tell us that we should try our best to make good conversations. For example if we want to become friends with someone new, then we should try to talk to them and ask then questions about themselves. It's always important that you let the other person talk before you do because it lets them know that you're actually interested in what their saying or about to say. Another thing is to not be rude or disrespectful, instead be nice and polite. I will apply this new rule into my life because I'm going to try my best to talk and actually care what others are saying to me. I will actually put in interest and time into the conversations that I'm in because it will also make me look good as a friend. The quote shown at the left is telling us that empathy is found in our self but we get it from another person. Meaning that if we actually pay attention when another person is talking, then we might find a connection with them. Be a good person and talk about them and how well of a person they are. Be engaged in one's story so that you can have something to actually talk about.
Rule 6: Make the other person feel important- and do it sincerely
This new rule is trying to tell us that we should care for others because its important that we make them feel special or important. Because if we do this, then we might get the same thing in return. Also another thing is don't do it just because someone told you too but do it from your heart. An example of this would be,you go to your grandmas house and she's wants to tell you a story about your parents and you say yes. But don't do it just because your parents are in the room, but because you want to let your grandma know that you actually love and care for her. I will apply this new rule into my life because I'm going to let my mom know and feel how important she is to me. Without her and her words of choice I wouldn't be the person who I am now, which is being an honor student and learning how to play an instrument. My mom pushes me daily and encourages me to make something great in this life that I have been given. The quote at the left is telling you how you should be the person to make someone else fell important and worthy. Do it because you want to not because you're being forced to do it.
Reflection:
My feelings about the six ways to make people like you are that I think that they were kind of helpful because they help you understand how you should treat a person when you meet them for the first time. Another thing is that if you follow the six rules you will actually be happy and feel accomplished, well that's how I see it. I encourage you to follow the six rules, so that you can experience a nice moment and encourage others as well. The rule that I like the most was rule number 2. The reason for this is because it just tells you how smiling can help you like others and let others know that you're actually interested so they may like you back and now you can become friends with this new person. One last thing is that a smile can always say a lot of things. I will apply the six rules in my life because I'm going to try and do one everyday until I feel confident about myself and encourage others to do this.
Rule 2: Smile
This new rule is trying to tell us that we should smile every time no matter how mad or sad we are. Smiling brings joy and happiness in other peoples life. It also makes you look good when you're presenting at your job or when you want to get hire. Just by smiling, others can tell how much happiness you have in your life. Even if you wake up in bad mood, you should still smile throughout the day. When you smile you let your friends or family members know how glad you are to see them. I will apply this new way into my life because each day I'm going to try my best to give everyone a smile, especially my mom because I want to show her how thankful I am to have her in my life. The quote shown at the left is telling you how a smile can hide many things, whether you're sad. heartbroken, or mad but it can also show the strength you have. Smiling is a very important thing in life because it tells you many things. As a matter of fact know one likes a person who is always gloomy or mad because it doesn't say much about you. Smiles make a good friendship and a good world to live in.Rule 3: Remember Names
This new rule is trying to tell us that we should always remember peoples name because its important, just like we know our own name, then we should do the same. Remembering names can be a big part in your future. For example when you want to get a recommendation from a teacher but you don't remember their name, how are you suppose to put them down. Not remembering names also makes you look bad because people are expecting you to remember them, so that you can have a nice friendship. Other names that you should remember are your workplace, where you live (city, state, country etc.). I will apply this new rule into my life by always doing the best I can to remember names because maybe one day I may need them for help. If I don't remember someones name, then i will associate more with them. Now a days it should be easier to remember names when you add them as a contact on your phone, it gives you the option to put their name. The quote at the right is telling you why people don't like to remember names, simply because they just don't have the time/ energy or they make excuses for themselves. Some ways to remember names is by making a commitment, concentrate, repeat and associate.Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage other to talk about themselves
This new rules is trying to tell us that we should always pay attention when someone is talking to us, let them know that we care what their saying. Encourage others to tell you something about themselves because its important that we to know one another. As a matter of fact we should always be a good listener in school, at home, at work, and even when your in public. Ask question when you need to. I will apply this new rule into my life because I will always try my very best to be a good listener even when I may be stressed out or daydreaming. I also need to encourage myself and other to talk about themselves. Be a smart person and choose to do the right thing. The quote shown at the left is telling you how being a good listener encourages you to be curious about the speaker and that's a good thing because now you know another person. Go out there today and be a good listener and meet new people/ friends.Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest
Rule 6: Make the other person feel important- and do it sincerely
This new rule is trying to tell us that we should care for others because its important that we make them feel special or important. Because if we do this, then we might get the same thing in return. Also another thing is don't do it just because someone told you too but do it from your heart. An example of this would be,you go to your grandmas house and she's wants to tell you a story about your parents and you say yes. But don't do it just because your parents are in the room, but because you want to let your grandma know that you actually love and care for her. I will apply this new rule into my life because I'm going to let my mom know and feel how important she is to me. Without her and her words of choice I wouldn't be the person who I am now, which is being an honor student and learning how to play an instrument. My mom pushes me daily and encourages me to make something great in this life that I have been given. The quote at the left is telling you how you should be the person to make someone else fell important and worthy. Do it because you want to not because you're being forced to do it.Reflection:
My feelings about the six ways to make people like you are that I think that they were kind of helpful because they help you understand how you should treat a person when you meet them for the first time. Another thing is that if you follow the six rules you will actually be happy and feel accomplished, well that's how I see it. I encourage you to follow the six rules, so that you can experience a nice moment and encourage others as well. The rule that I like the most was rule number 2. The reason for this is because it just tells you how smiling can help you like others and let others know that you're actually interested so they may like you back and now you can become friends with this new person. One last thing is that a smile can always say a lot of things. I will apply the six rules in my life because I'm going to try and do one everyday until I feel confident about myself and encourage others to do this.
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